Bare Back – Usually when women prefer no condoms or protection
BBC – Big Black Cock – Usually women looking for a man of color with an over average penis size.
BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful.
BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - Sadomasochism
Bi or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.
Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious about being with a member of the same sex, or has had limited experience.
Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.
Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.
Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel, generally beyond an hours drive.
CD - Cross Dresser - Person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally used by men.
Clean - Disease and Drug Free
Cougar - An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.
Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.
CPL - Couple
Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris
DD or D&D - Disease and Drug free.
Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.
DP - Double Penetration, simultaneous Vaginal and Anal.
Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.
F - Female
Fellation - Oral stimulation of the penis
Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.
FMF – A sexual encounter with 2 females & 1 male
Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.
Gay - Homosexual, generally a male.
GBM - Gay Black Man
GWM - Gay White Man
Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.
Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.
Hung - One with a large penis
HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.
ISO - In Search Of
Lesbian - Gay women.
LTR - Long Term Relationship
M - Male
MBC - Married Black Couple
MBiC - Married Bi Couple
MILF - Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck
Moresome - More than four.
MFM – A sexual encounter with 2 men & 1 woman
MWC - Married White Couple
NSA - No Strings Attached
Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.
On-Premise – A swing club that allows sexual acts to be performed at that location.
P/P – Photo / Phone
S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism
Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.
SBF - Single Black Female
SBiF - Single Bi Female
SBiM - Single Bi Male
SBM - Single Black Male
SGL - Single
Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.
Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.
STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.
STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.
Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners
SWF - Single White Female
SWM - Single White Male
Unicorn - Generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.
Versatile - Bisexual
Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching others involved in sexual acts.
Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation.
